Separation Anxiety Do's and Dont's

Does your toddler cry uncontrollably when you try to leave him or her with a childcare provider—or even a close relative?

Separation anxiety is common among toddlers. In fact, some children can experience it from infancy through elementary school years. Try these strategies to help you both cope:

  • Do establish a pattern of cheerful goodbyes and reassurances that you’ll return. And do return when you say you will.
  • Don’t try to sneak away while your child isn’t looking; it may prompt even more anxiety.
  • Don’t head back to your child if her tears and distress escalate; trust that the caregiver knows how to comfort, reassure and distract her.
  • Do talk with your child’s doctor if your child’s anxiety begins to interfere with daily functioning.
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